Learning how to satisfy your man $exually is a lot easier than you think. You don’t need to be a P0rn star or some sort of $ex crazed nymphomaniac to make sure that you give him a good time. In this article I want to teach you how to have $ex to give your man the most pleasure he’s ever had in his life.
- Find out his kinks, fantasies and fetishes.
Every guy has certain things that are massive turn ons for them. It could be when you wear an extra tight pair of jeans or a pair of $exy heels or that top that reveals your cleavage more than usual. But with that being said, it could perhaps be something a little wilder. He might love the idea of seeing you with another woman or even another man. Or maybe he really wants to try anal $ex with you. Or maybe he has a thing for feet.
If you are serious about satisfying your man $exually in the bedroom, then the most powerful thing that you can do is find out what his kinks, fantasies, and fetishes are and then do them with him. Doing them with your man is actually the easy part. Finding them out and getting your man to open up is the hard part. Often your man may be slightly embarrassed or reluctant to talk about them with you. To get him to relax and open up to you is not that easy, unfortunately.
One way to approach it is to tell him some of yours first. Being the first to share is a great way to get him to reciprocate. Another way is to just say that you want to try lots of different things with him. As you explain to your man each thing that you want to try with him, try to judge his reaction. Obviously, he is going to look more keen and excited about certain ideas than others.
- Learn how to talk dirty.
Yes, we all know that men are turned on mostly by what they see. But what you may not know is that if you want to vastly increase his $exual satisfaction when you are in bed together, then you need to learn how to talk dirty to him. Talking dirty to your man takes a little practice and work. But once you master it, you’ll have another skill in your $ex toolset that most other girls don’t possess. The first stage of talking dirty to your man doesn’t actually involve words. It simply involves you getting louder and louder during $ex. You need to accentuate your moans and groans. This is quite easy.
All you are going to be moaning is, “Mmmmmm” or “Oooooh” or “Ahhhhh.” Easy, right? The next stage of talking dirty is just using 1 or 2 words. Try slowly saying, “Yes” or “That’s it” or “Yes, Yes” or “Keep Going.” When you are saying these one or two-word phrases, try drawing them out and moaning as you say them.
Many women don’t ever even get to the second stage. So if you do, you are already ahead of them! Getting dirtier is actually pretty easy if you’ve mastered the first 2 stages. You just need to start telling your man what you enjoy about him and what he is doing, “I love how big you feel” or “Keep hitting that spot” or “Keep going, harder” or “You feel so good inside me.” But dirty talk during $ex is only a start! Don’t forget that you can talk dirty to him during the day as well as through text if you want to turn him on and keep him satisfied.
- Learn some awesome $ex positions.
One of the things that I strongly believe in is the use of variation if your want to keep your man $exually satisfied in the bedroom. Everybody have certain things that turn them on way more than anything else. But if you focus solely on the same few things and use them over and over, you will inevitably end up getting bored of them.
- Learn how to give awesome 0ral $ex.
If you are serious about learning how to satisfy your man $exually, then learning how to give fantastic, pleasurable blow jobs should be near the top of your list of priorities.